OH YES! The month of May is here and with it the lingering question of "may or may not be"!
This
particular confusion lane starts with a broken heart and the hardest of
the hard struggles that it ensues. Ofcourse, no way, we can belittle
the pain and the trauma of losing a beloved or/and losing out on love,
but it is important in a situation where emotions run wild and reason
seems to betray trust and faithfulness, one should not altogether go
with guns blazing on the poor love!
Imagine, only a few
days back, you only called love, the most amazing and the most awesome
feeling in the world, and now, just because, the loved person went on
ahead with life, you blame the feeling of love for it? Love felt so good
when you awarded it with beautiful words and phrases, and now,
suddenly, a turnaround which compels it to ask "Why this Kolaveri?"
Its
hard to contemplate at the beginning but the fact remains that you
learn from your mistakes and they are like your shadows that do not
leave you unless you move over them!
Agreed, that your
lover did not turn out to be the perfect one, but that does not give a
right to blame love for it, afterall, you only wanted to fall in love
and in love with the idea of love. You only built your expectations too
early and too fast without realising what it could mean for the future!
All
this might seem a bit harsh, but its time, we realize that blaming
others, whether people or feelings can never work and repenting after
problems have occurred does only lead to another struggle. I might be no
one to comment on others life, but seeing this all around me, just
leaves me aghast!
तो पागल हैं हम सब- ALL BECAUSE OF YOU MY 'sometimes' DEAR LOVE and 'often' NOT-SO-DEAR LOVE!!
